Sexuality educator & intimacy practitioner.
Helping individuals and couples explore desire, rethink the rules of intimacy, and discover new possibilities for connection.
You love your kids, and a lot of your life may be everything you hoped for. And yet, becoming a parent can change your relationship to your body, your desire, your partner, and yourself in ways you never quite anticipated.
Your sex life might look different. Your priorities may have shifted. Even familiar patterns, like how you touch, who initiates, and what feels good, might not feel so familiar anymore.
I'm curious about what happens to intimacy as our lives change.
What we want more of. What we're curious about. What we'd like to explore. And what possibilities we haven't even considered.
Nothing has to be wrong for there to be more to discover.
We get curious.
We talk about sex, desire, identity, boundaries, pleasure, and partnership, and how all of these can shift when you become parents. What happens to your sense of self when so much revolves around your kids? What happens to desire when you're exhausted, touched out, or more in sync as co-parents than romantic partners?
We look at the scripts you've inherited, the patterns you've fallen into since having kids, and what you might want to do differently. Through conversation, creative exploration, and experimentation, we make room for new perspectives, unexpected discoveries, and possibilities you might not have considered.
It's a chance to reconnect with yourself, get curious about what you want in this season of life, and explore what intimacy could look like for you now, as individuals, as partners, and as parents.
Start wherever you are, and we'll take it from there.
Book a discovery callSince I was a teenager, I've been the friend people come to with questions about sex, relationships, and desire. After ten years as a tech executive, I now work with individuals and couples around sexuality, desire, and connection, and as a mom myself I'm especially interested in how parenthood changes our relationships with our bodies, our partners, and ourselves.
Every path begins with a discovery call, so we can see together what fits. Sessions are available in person in Brooklyn and Woodstock, New York, and virtually.
Individual sessions for exploring desire, identity, and what you want now, through pregnancy, birth, loss, and everything after.
Book a discovery call →Sessions for couples redefining what their relationship looks like now, and finding their way back to connection, ease, and presence after infertility, a pregnancy loss, or the upheaval that comes with having kids.
Book a discovery call →Start with a discovery call, no preparation needed.
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